Why "would you rather" works
The first seconds of a random video chat can feel awkward. A playful either-or question gives both of you something easy to answer and a reason to explain why.
15 questions to copy
- Would you rather travel to the past or the future?
- Would you rather live by the sea or in the mountains?
- Would you rather only eat pizza or only eat sushi for a year?
- Would you rather be able to fly or be invisible?
- Would you rather speak every language or play every instrument?
- Would you rather have a cat or a dog?
- Would you rather watch the sunrise or the sunset?
- Would you rather live without music or without movies?
- Would you rather explore space or the deep ocean?
- Would you rather always be too hot or always too cold?
- Would you rather read minds or see the future?
- Would you rather have a road trip or a beach holiday?
- Would you rather be famous or rich?
- Would you rather never use social media again or never watch TV again?
- Would you rather meet your favorite singer or your favorite athlete?
Keep it going
- Ask "why?" after every answer; that's where the real conversation is.
- Answer your own question too.
- Skip anything the other person doesn't enjoy.
Try it now
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Quick answers
FAQ
What is a good first would-you-rather question?
Light ones work best, like "sunrise or sunset?" or "sea or mountains?".
How many questions should I ask?
Two or three is plenty; let the conversation follow the answers.
Can I use these in other languages?
Yes, this guide is also available in Turkish, Hebrew, Arabic and German.
Where can I try them?
On Kiss Live Chat, random 1-on-1 video chat with real people, on the app or the web.
BlogWritten by the Kiss Live Chat Team
